Posted on July 21, 2022

Hey

How many times do friends, family or strangers look at you all funny and weird when you try to explain what you do for a living? I mean try in a couple of sentences to explain your Internet Marketing business. Ha! It's funny as my explanation changes all the time. I'm still trying to narrow it down to one awesome sentence:)

Frank Kern simply says.. "I sell sxxx." That probably describes it best to be honest but then people look at you like... "Dude why are you so weird?" I mean it's hard when you first start building an Internet Marketing business.. Let alone everyone and their mom has no idea what you do so you start to second guess yourself.

Then we start to form this inward pressure. We start to feel fear, anxiety, insecurity and uncomfortable. All signs that you need to recognize as what I call "growing stages".

The problem is most newbie's don't see them as good signs.. more like a sign that says- "Man get me outta here!" Truth is you're dealing with two types of pressure all at once when you're an Internet Marketer (at all levels):

1. Inward Pressure: fear,anxiety,doubt,insecurity,uncomfortable 
2. Outward Pressure: Criticism, hatred

Yep making money online is no walk in the park. You have normal people from the broad road looking at you all weird while you're walking the narrow road.. questioning you like.. Hey Andrew, what's up with you- what's all this Internet stuff? Why don't you get a real job like the rest of us!?

They will make fun of you, they will criticize you, they will doubt you. This doesn't just happen to newbie's trying to make it online. This happens to advanced Internet Marketers with successful businesses as well. As a matter of fact you have to deal with the criticism more at a higher level. Here's the important thing you need to understand. You're weird!

Trust me I'm not saying that in a negative way I'm proud to admit I'm one weird dude. Normal people don't approve of me. Normal people don't get me. Normal People hate me.

Kinda sucks to think about it... but does it? I will take that compliment all day long because the "normal" way to live your life.. umm sucks!

Normal Life:

• Trading time for money
• in debt up to your eyeballs
• unemployed and broke
• 2 weeks of vacation a year (most places you want to go you can't afford) 
• don't spend enough time with your family
• not spiritually sound
• negative thought process
• you worry constantly
• you never take chances
• you don't experience new cool stuff to grow from
• your stuck in a complacent life
• answer to a mean ole boss
• and I could list like 50 other things that society calls normal.

Ok so look at that list again. Now raise your hand if you want to be normal. Uhh I don't see your hand raised? Duh- You're weird and thank God!

You should be super stoked to have normal people question what you're doing. You should be counting your blessings that you understand that you are in control of your destiny. Be thankful that you have seen first hand that lives have been changed because of Internet Marketing.

You see all the haters will try to bring you down and criticize you as long as you stay on the narrow road. They will cast their stones as long as you stay positive and take action. They will call you weird because they don't understand! They will HATE you! Now look, you don't even need to be a rolly holly person, to get goose bumps from the passage. You have been chosen to be great! To lead others to greatness. You have a gift - you understand the power that is at your fingertips. 

No one can take that away from you. NO ONE!!

Listen, Normal is not working and normal people don't like when you do something different. They don't like it when you succeed or want to succeed. Normal people live in a pool of hate with all the other little normal haters. Can I be honest with you.. I find great comfort when people criticize me, make fun of me or talk bad about me. "Oh Tim is a loser, he's so stupid, he talks funny, he wears weird clothes blah blah blah. Sweet! I love it LOL. I mean it's pretty comical as these critics and haters think they are actually hurting me.

They are making me stronger, more focused. They make me more powerful- You think I'm going to let some "normal" senseless haters stop me from greatness?!? No one can stop me! No one can stop YOU my friend I want you to do something.. but don't do it for me. Do it for yourself. Keep taking action. Keep thinking positive. Keep envisioning your success. Keep envisioning yourself accomplishing all of your goals. Envision you creating the Internet Marketing business you dream of.

Be different, BE weird - normal doesn't cut it in this world anymore! Dare to be different! Be proud to be weird. As long as people criticize you and think you're weird.. That means you are walking the path to ultimate abundance, happiness and greatness! You know the saying: if people ain't talkin about you then you ain't making a difference". If you're new to Internet Marketing do not give up. You have the pad lock to the kingdom my friend. All you need to do is find the right combination. 

It might take several attempts, you might even fail a few times, people might criticize you but you stick with it- you will figure out the CODE. You need to define what is normal in your life. Set new standards and cast out anyone who gets in your way.

The best part about being Internet Marketers.. is we get to chose who buys from us. We get to choose who we bless and share knowledge with. We get to chose who we want on our list. That is our power of being an entrepreneur. If people hate on you, refund your product, send you hate mail, unsubscribe from your list- then GOOD! That is a blessing- you don't want people that don't dig your style to be in your life. You have the power to work with whoever you want when you want.. and man that's not normal- SWEET!

(sign me up:) 

Creating a successful Internet Marketing business is attainable for YOU- If I can do it so can you. I want to really give back to YOU- it doesn't matter where you are reading this. A new beginning for you starts now. Dare to be different and it's OK to be weird

My wife tells me weird is the new sexy ;)

Talk soon, Tom Cardwell

PS. I love you - I will help you make a difference